* Life is stressful. There’s always something going on (or will be going on soon) that will be hard to deal with. It’s less about what we have to deal with; rather, how do we deal with it? For the most part, I just hope that I’ll have enough strength to not freak out while I deal. Doesn’t that sound pretty reasonable?
* Life can be lonely. we spend a significant portion of our day emotionally isolated from others. We aren’t ALONE, but we are not truly connected with the people who are around us. Work, school, activities-we do what we do, we get through our day, we stay busy enough to not notice that we’re actually very lonely. I wish we were able to go back to the way things used to be, before electronics, before big government, before the B.S., back to a time when people worked to survive, but they did it surrounded by people they loved. They only had to deal with others outside the family circle on a rare occasion.
* Life can be boring. I think we’re just totally overstimulated. We have technology everywhere and we rely on it for entertainment. If we aren’t watching, typing, playing something electronic, we are looking for ways to do so. Clearly, I’m not saying that I’m perfect, because as I type my blog on the internet on my netbook, I’m also updating iTunes on my laptop, watching/listening to a DVD and hoping to get a text from someone. When I go do laundry later, I’ll be listening to my iPod while I read and text/surf the web on my smart phone. But you know what? we desperately need to make time for ourselves, during which we reconnect with the other parts of life that don’t have to be plugged in, streaming, or in some other way connect to an external power source. Go read a book in a park and listen to the wind in the trees. Build something. Do something simply for the enjoyment of the act. Quit expecting life to dump your perfect scenario in your lap because it’s not going to happen.
* Life is confusing. What have I been doing? What should I be doing now? What should I do next? Why not do what ends up presenting itself to you at the time? There isn’t much point in planning every single detail because something is going to change your plans. You know this is true, just like I do. C’mon, now. Think about it. Every time you’ve made some big elaborate scheme to set something up a specific way, with certain people doing specific things, the plan will change. Murphy has something to do with that, I believe.
* Life can be WAY more fun than we allow it to be. We take ourselves SO seriously that we get in our own way. Since when are we the only people who are allowed to be right? Why does our definition of fun apply to everyone around us? What if someone else’s idea of fun really IS, but because we’re always right, we miss out on a great opportunity? We start out with these preconceived notions that screw us over and change everything we could actually experience. We need to quit being so selfish and making things about us, and try to see things from someone else’s point of view.
* Life is short. How old are you now? What have you done in your life to date that was really fun, exciting, unique, memorable? Not much, I’ll bet. I’ve done a few things, but I know that there’s more to come. I’m not saying it’s not good to dream and have ideas, but then you have to actually GO ACHIEVE those dreams and ACT ON those ideas. Seriously. Life isn’t going to drop these things in your lap. Life gives you the opportunity to dream, but it also gives you the chance to work for it. YOU. Not your mommy and daddy and their checkbook. Go live your life. go get your dreams.
* Life is what we have. We’ve got the time we’re living in. So go do something with it. What are you doing, you self-righteous hypocrite?, You may ask? I’m going to do laundry and shop for stuff for my apartment because I need to and because I want to. I’m going to live life the way I should and quit complaining about everything, because the more you complain, the faster you run out of time for the fun stuff.
YAY FOR LAUNDRY DAY!